Yasmin, you’ve got some really toxic friends. You should not be in a position where people are rejecting your boundaries and dismissing your needs. It’s obvious that you’re a giving person, and that’s being exploited. You deserve better. Maybe in the mean time you might want someone to lean on yourself?You’re right, an actual therapist won’t tell you exactly what to do, but they will give you guidance regarding what is healthy to expect or provide in a relationship.